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I think the problem with love today is boundaries,selfishness,control,jealousy,lies , cheating. Ok so boundaries, if you love someone and set boundaries on that love your limiting your love, and limiting your love boils down to selfishness. There should never be selfishness in any relationship, it just sucks the soul out of the other person and makes them feel worthless and depressed. Dealing with this on a longterm basis it can lead to serious illnesses, so be carefull who you love make sure there they love you unconditionally. Then selfishness leads to control, control is very dangerous, techniy your being manipulated to do there will, and you dont even know it. Sometimes you will and you'll brush it off, if this person really loves you couldn't you both have your way by compromising. Then they use jealousy as a control device, there has to be trust in a relationship for it to work, no trust, no happiness. Then by this time you both are just staying for the kids or just because your a co dependent person that doesn't like to be alone. Lies start to kick in your friend at work that you tell all your troubles to has an idea,''lets go out and I'll introduce you to someone who will appreciate you'', the only problem is that you made a covenant before God,man,woman and children to love one another for the rest of your lives. Cheating, the biggest mistake any of us could make, when you first start you feel bad but as the months go on you become desensitized, its like coming to vegas for the first time its like wow! 3 months go by its like whatever. Dont take that step do not dishonor your partner,get divorced first, but build youself up before going with another. If your feeling me on this, drop me somelines about you, and a pic, put I love me, but I can love you more in the subject line. Even if you just want some advice,hit me up. May God Bless You Abundantly Knowledge comes from above, Amen |