Single Raguel, 32

so there's really no way she can you. It would seem to me that her (in)actions are trying to tell you something that she can't put into words. Maybe she Housewives personals in Cassadaga FL hates being a Mom that isn't formally employed. Maybe she's in desperate need of a hobby/outlet or me time. Maybe she needs a social circle. Maybe she hates being married or maybe she hates being a Mom/StepMom. Maybe she'd like to have a career. It can be very difficult to suss out any one of those issues and it not be something even realizes or can verbalize. I'm a stay at home Mom and let me tell ya: If you are actually doing it right, it's a tough gig. There's TONS to do. The whole thing is a big balancing act to make sure all the needs of the family are met so the stay at home parent needs to be balanced themselves. It can be overwhelming, thankless and there are a lot of people who don't give it much respect. Additionally, she flat out be a shopalic. If you've tried reasoning with her, and she refuses any help, I don't what you can do besides distance your finances from her. She'll run you ALL into the poor house. I divorced a guy and money was the number 2 reason. Just a warning: divorcing a financial idiot was expensive, he managed to slide in some final bills, there was a bunch of financial messes out there I didn't even know about but still got into. I ended up getting a second and third job to be able to pay them off over the next years. You must make a crap load of money if some one has access to 5-6K monthly to throw around. I'd shut down any and all credit accounts, offer her cash only that you drop off after you visit the bank every pay day. Tell her she has to make it work. Not important Emily, 22

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